Rate Your Marriage

After you take this test have your spouse take it also.

Rate yourself from 1-10, with 1 being the weakest, and 10 being the strongest.

 

1.  I am tolerant toward and accepting of my mate, even when he/she displeases me.  
2.  I completely forgive the wrongs my mate commits against me.  
3.  I do not broadcast my mate's faults to put him/her in a poor light.  
4.  I find appropriate time to resolve conflict.  
5.  I attempt to treat my mate with absolute trust.  
6.  I regularly take time to communicate with my mate.  
7.  I am totally and unconditionally committed to my mate.  
8.  I have a very clear understanding of the unique differences of my mate and how they strengthen my marriage.  
9.  I follow a thoughtful and predetermined decision-making process with my mate.  
10.  I work annually toward marriage enrichment rather than settle for a tolerable or average marriage.

How did you do?  What percentages do you think you ought to have to have a really good marriage? Do you see an area of weakness in your marriage that could use some work? If your score is not to good I would strongly recommend that you make an appointment with your pastor to work on your areas of weakness.